On the opposite end.

Have you ever just been on the opposite end of a friend and the situation that they're going through? And all you're wanting to do is tell them that you can see what's outside the "box" and that it doesn't look good. I'm in that situation right now, and it's just so frustrating. I just want to save his heart and I know that I cant..because he has to make his decisions on his own. But I see where it's all leading too...like I'm the only one that's flipping the pages of the book and seeing exactly what's going to happen next. I know that he has to make these moves regardless if he's not right..this is how you learn...life lessons. But he's already been through this...I feel he's heading down the same path and that I'm the only one that can stop him from inevitable pain. But I can't! I just have to be that person that supports him regardless of how I feel. Man, it would just be so nice to be able to just fix this for him....why do I feel like I know how? I don't know..I just feel that way. Pray for me.

How are things?

How is everyone doing? Haven't heard much from you guys. Things are ok here. I'm actually ready for school to start..isn't that crazy? Guess I'm just ready to get it over with..one more year and I'm done! I feel the need to redecorate today. Maybe I'll paint Gavin's room. He needs a change before he starts Kindergarten. I'm just in the cleaning, organizing, redecorating mood. Is this nesting? I feel like I'm nesting..lol. And NO..I'm not pregnant so for those of you who have that in your head..get it out immediately! lol. Mel and Jon are house hunting now. I'm excited for them! Mel has already found a house that she likes...all of it is so much fun. Can't wait 'til the day that I'm looking for my own home. EEeeeeK. This year is going to fly by..I have a feeling. So anyways, let me know how y'all are doing. Everyone going to Jenny's birthday dinner??

Could things just be easy for once?

It seems like everytime I talk to Karen she is going through something regarding her new relationship. I sit on the opposite end listening to her newest trouble..all the while trying to figure out how I can fix it. I've come to the conclusion that I feel that I'm that type of person who needs to fix things, regarless of the problem. Have I always been that way? Already after this 30 min. conversation we had today, I have come up with at least three solutions to her dilemma. So if I'm so apt. to want to fix everyone's problems...why can't I fix my own? Instead I spend minute after minute analyzing the current situation I'm in just to find myself calling Theresa to help me fix it. Is this just a viscious cycle? Why can't things just be easy for once so there is no problem solving involved? But just happiness and giddiness and Cloud 9-ess..lol. Aggghhhh. It's so frustrating!